Now I used to be the kind of guy who would go from girl to girl and I would have somewhat OK relationships with them, but for some reason I was always getting beat out by some other bigger, stronger guy and this always made me feel like I was performing inferiorly during sex, but I learned later that I was just doing a couple things a little bit wrong and just needed to tweak up my skills a little bit. What I learned is that in order to have a girl have a really good orgasm with you you are going to need to make sure that she is completely comfortable with you and she can completely relax during sex, and of course get in some uncomfortable positions that will feel great for you.
This shouldn’t be all that much of a problem because if you have a girl ready to have sex with you then she is probably ready to do some freaky shit because every single girl has a little freakiness in her that needs to get released out from time to time. Remember that because this is really important, women are always freaky on the inside but they just need the right guy who is really good at sex to bring that out in them, and I’m sure that you can be that guy who brings out the kinkiness in women if you just follow this one really simple idea that has worked for me for so long and had made me the ultimate lady’s man today.
Ok so here is the secret to giving a girl a proper orgasm, and the truth of the matter is that it really isn’t all that complicated and you’re probably already there, almost, but you just need to do a little bit more while you’re having sex to get your girl to have some sex. So here’s the thing about female orgasms and the vagina: there are multiple ways for women to have orgasms. I think we all know this but let’s refrain and let you know that there is the clitoris orgasm and the G-Spot orgasm, and both are a little bit different and both girls love tremendously.
Now the way to give a girl a serious orgasm that is going to make her squirt is to lay her down on her back and lift her legs up high in the air by your elbows as you mount her and go for a G-Spot position. There are a variety of G-Spot positions but you choose your favorite. Next you are going to want to fuck the shit out of her with some solid rhythm that is pretty frequent and starts hitting the G-Spot over and over again and a solid pace. Then, the final touch is to have your girl, or yourself start to rub her clitoris with the exact same rhythm as the fucking of the G-Spot. This might be easier to let your girl do it themselves because you might be a little preoccupied, but it doesn’t matter who does it the point is that you need to stimulate both the G-Spot and the clitoris for a solid amount of time with some good rhythm and then all of a sudden you got it, a real female orgasm that is wet and fluid and gnarly all at the same time.
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It was a very cold night, and when we got back to the log cabin up in the middle of the Colorado mountains the first thing we both wanted to do was take our clothes off and sit by the fire and warm up next to each other, so that’s exactly what we did.
I’m just kidding, this is not that type of article, but this article is all about the very famous and sometimes hard to find female orgasm. Of course men and females alike tend to talk about the female orgasm way more than the male orgasm, and for obvious reasons. Some of the main reasons for this is that the men orgasm is simply just kind of weird and not very sexy at all in all senses of objectivity towards sexuality. It’s like a firecracker shooting up into the air and just exploding subtly making some like lights in the air and then fizzling out a few seconds later. It’s true, men don’t orgasm for longer than about 10 seconds, and that’s exactly why we have to heave ourselves over women and lunge and pull and push and grind our ways to the point where we can start to climax, while for women it is the exact opposite, but still somewhat similar.
A woman can sometimes be similar to that of a diesel engine, and what I mean by that exactly is that it sometimes takes a woman a really long time to get warmed up on some cold winter days when you’re up in the middle of the Colorado wilderness, but once she does get up and running she’ll be able to go all night. This has been the largest dilemma ever since sex became a thing, which was like at the beginning of time when we were all a bunch of monkeys, and this dilemma is that men never seem to last long enough to make women have a legitimate orgasm. Of course for women it feels really good even before they have an orgasm, but still it is not the same as having a real orgasm, and women who do have regular orgasms know that other forms of sex where their partner doesn’t last quite long enough isn’t as good at all.
That’s why it’s so weird to talk about the female orgasm, because you think you are giving your girl a good orgasm during sex all the time because she really seems like she is having a good time, but the truth is she could be having an extremely amazing time if you gave her a legitimate orgasm. Of course for men this isn’t as easy said as done, and if you really want to give your girl a good orgasm then you are definitely going to do a little bit of reading and find out some research on how exactly to get your girl to cum just like you, because if you think that some girls are squirters and some girls aren’t squirts then you are sorely mistaken.
All girls can come and squirt or whatever just like all men come and squirt, and the one time that you actually do succeed in making your girl squirt, because trust me it’s possible, you will be the best thing that has ever happened to her and she’ll become obsessed with you like she was obsessed with the Backstreet Boys when she was just a little girl back in the 90s. Of course your girl might be older than 20 to 30 years old so for you it’s still the same thing, she’ll be obsessed is what I’m trying to say.
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SOME INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT THE FEMALE ORGASM
• In some cultures women are not “permitted” to reach orgasm. It is believed that if they do it is because they have become possessed by demons who cause them to react in such an “unseemly” fashion.
• Some women reach orgasm without knowing it. That is to say, they don’t realize they have climaxed because they do not display the “normal” signs of doing so, such as rapid, heavy breathing, sweating, increased heart rate, etc. In some women an orgasm feels like an extreme relaxation of the pent-up arousal in the muscles of the pelvic area. They are almost gentle rather than explosive.
• The female orgasm actually begins in the brain, not in the genitals. The initial sensations begin in the genital area, but in order for them to reach climax stage, they are then sent to the brain’s pleasure center, technically known as the nucleus accembens. When orgasm occurs the brain is saturated with oxytocin, which is the chemical that is related to feelings of closeness and intimacy. This occurs in both men and women, but in men a higher level of testosterone often overrides some of these effects, which is the reason women and men often have different responses following orgasm.
• Sex toys such as vibrators are designed to specifically appeal to certain nerves located in specific places on the body. Some nerves respond to vibrations in a purely sexual manner. Hence, the vibrating sex toys which women are so overwhelmingly fond of (shhh!).
• Weak muscles can result in unsatisfactory orgasms. The muscles of the pelvic floor are instrumental in the orgasm process, holding the tension which is built up during sexual arousal until the moment of release whch results in climax. If these muscles are weak, they are unable to perform to their fullest extent, and the orgasm suffers for it. Kegel exercises help to strengthen these and other muscles in the pelvic/vaginal region which work together to deliver a powerful orgasm.
• A woman does not have to reach orgasm in order to enjoy sex. Since women enjoy the closeness and intimacy of sexual intercourse in and of itself, an orgasm is not needed in order for a woman to be satisfied after a man climaxes and sexual intercourse ends. In fact, she can experience feelings of satisfaction equal to those a man experiences following orgasm.
The art of the female orgasm is exactly that: an art form. A partner who is willing to explore a woman’s body and discover what makes her unique in her desires and appetites, and what culminates in her ultimate satiation, is truly a talented artist, and one who will have the pleasure of learning his abilities over and over again, each time on the unique canvas of the female body. In you take the time to master how to get your partner off it will be worth it in the long run. Trust me. Practice working with the kegel muscles, this will make you last longer in the bed and the woman will become tighter. It works for both parties.
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The only time this is not necessarily true is during clitoral stimulation. It is a proven fact that a woman can reach orgasm via clitoral stimulation regardless of any level of attraction to her partner. A rather disturbing but accurate depiction of this is a woman who has been the victim of rape. During the act of rape, which has nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with violence and control, many women have been upset by the fact that their attacker brought them to climax by manipulating their clitoris. This would of course be confusing and highly upsetting to many women. However, it should be understood that the physiological reaction to clitoral stimulation is involuntary, much like breathing, the beating of the heart, or the reaction of the pupil to bright light. The point being, clitoral stimulation will bring on orgasm easier than any other method, and it does not require any type of attraction or connection other than in the physical sense.
Vaginal intercourse orgasm, however, is a more rare occurrence and relies heavily on attraction, arousal,and circumstances. Some females have more sensitive vaginal walls, and some are built in a way in which a man’s penis reaches their uterus during intercourse, thereby stimulating her g-spot during sex and helping her to reach orgasm. Again, this method requires a bit of trial and exploration. Don’t be afraid to ask your partner what feels good to her as you are playing with her body. You can of course ask her what she enjoys any time, but it is oin the heat of the moment, when she is aroused, that you will find your answers most easily. In most instances, if you are the attentive lover you should be, you will not have to ask; her body and her responses to your touch will tell you everything you need to know.
THE ELUSIVE FEMALE ORGASM
When everything is said and done, there is still the occasional female who it seems is simply incapable of reaching orgasm. It is highly unlikely that she is truly unable to do so. It is more likely that the method that works for her has simply not been determined yet. Studies are now being conducted to determine the level of similarity between the male brain and the female brain during orgasm. To date these studies have indicated a high level of similarities between the two. The only finding which supports a genuine issue with a female having trouble reaching climax is when she has been the victim of some sort of violence or sexual assault. This of course may cause issues that may require therapy and/or counseling to deal with. Otherwise, issues of difficulty reaching orgasm can be identified as being psychological in nature, or even something as simple as a woman simply being inexperienced and not knowing what her own body responds to sexually in order to bring her to climax.
Given this information, and given the fact that we do not hear of men who are unable to reach orgasm nearly as frequently as we do females, it would seem that there is something to be learned from these studies. Armed with the findings of such studies along with a willingness to do some studying and exploring of your own, determining what will bring the female to climax can be quite an enjoyable experience for both of you. What man does not want to be able to say that he brought a woman to climax for the very first time in her life? And what woman would ever forget that
This is due to the fact that the clitoris is the epicenter of a bundle of nerve endings which serve to sexually stimulate the female specifically so that she may climax. For many years, medical experts as well as scientists searched for some other function of the clitoris, believing it must be tied to some specific operation of the female body. It has now been determined through extensive testing and research that the clitoris does in fact exist solely as a means to assist the female in reaching climax. Methods such as stimulating the g-spot located inside the woman’s body are a bit trickier and require patience and practice. As for vaginal stimulation or stimulation via intercourse, it is a rare thing for a woman to be able to reach a state of arousal strong enough to climax simply from intercourse or stimulation of the vagina itself.
NOT ALL FEMALE ORGASMS ARE CREATED EQUAL
While nearly every female responds to clitoral stimulation and is able to reach climax with this method, each woman is different and it is important to explore and discover what works best for each one. Although it is a multi-billion dollar industry, one of the greatest enemies of the female orgasm is porno. It seems the aim of every pornographic video, movie, etc, is to treat the clitoris as though the more roughly it is manipulated, the more sexually arousing it is to the female. Again, each woman is different, but the general consensus is that clitoral stimulation is infinitely more pleasurable and effective when done in a steady, rhythmic manner. Bringing a woman to orgasm via clitoral stimulation can be done with the fingers, the mouth, or with sex toys such as vibrators. The orgasm may be intensified by stimulating other parts of the body at the same time, such as biting or sucking on the nipples, the neck, or stimulating and/or penetrating the anus. Some women enjoy being talked to during sexual stimulation as this intensifies the experience.
For those females who are able to achieve orgasm during intercourse, it is important to be in sync and to understand precisely what she enjoys and what type of stimulation will bring her to climax. For some women, rough sex ignites her hormones and her body responds with an orgasm; still others can only reach climax when the sex is slow, romantic, and sensual. This allows the mind to become involved in the experience as well as the body. For a woman this is pretty much a necessity in order to achieve any type of climax. Whereas males are known to be more visual creatures, able to reach orgasm while simply looking at something which turns him on (generally followed by masturbation), the female is an entirely different creature. A woman’s mind must be stimulated along with her body. There must be some level of attraction and not just a physical action in order for her to reach orgasm. man?
THE MYSTERY OF THE FEMALE ORGASM – SOLVED!
Since the dawn of man the world has been a magic cauldron of mysteries: life on other planets, sea monsters, the afterlife…and the female orgasm. While the questions of alien life, sea serpents, etc., are still hotly debated the secrets of the female orgasm have been gloriously revealed. And the kicker is, there was never really a deep, dark mystery about it at all. It turns out that the entire concept of the elusive female orgasm was centered around long-standing myths. Once science stepped in and explained a thing or two, both men and women rejoiced.
In reality, the female orgasm is no more of a mystery and no more complicated than the male orgasm. Science made great strides in discoveries regarding both in 1966. However, considering that the male orgasm has always been a given, it was the process of the female climax that became the focal point of the revelations.
Once it was revealed that the female orgasm was essentially ontrolled by the external workings of the clitoris, it was as if scales had fallen away from the eyes of men. Here was the Holy Grail of the female body. The clitoris exists for no purpose other than the sexual arousal of the female, and to bring her to arousal and climax. Interestingly enough, and completely contrary to the male orgasm, there is absolutely no scientific evidence to support the existence of the female orgasm. A woman’s body is able to reach climax in a number of ways: clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm from intercourse, G-spot orgasm, and orgasm from cervical stimulation. Women have reported reaching orgasm via other types of stimulation as well, but these are the most frequently reported and discussed methods.
WHAT IS THE FEMALE ORGASM?
An orgasm is caused by the release of pelvic muscle tension that becomes built up during sexual arousal. It is a rhythmic release of the tension in the muscles once the stimulation to the area of the vagina (or the penis) reaches an elevated level. The clitoral glans of the female must be sufficiently stimulated in order for her to reach orgasm. It is true that ejaculation is set off in men when they reach orgasm, however, it is a little-known fact that ejaculation and orgasm are two entirely different events and can be experienced individually.
Women are also capable of experiencing ejaculation, though not with the same frequency and not on the same manner as men, and not all women do so. Just as ejaculation can be triggered by stimulating the g-spot in a male (the prostate gland, located just inside the anus), female ejaculation can be trigered by stimulation of the g-spot surrounding the urethra, which can be felt through the wall of the vagina. It is considered a fairly rare occurrence for a female to actually ejaculate, or “squirt”. It happens when she has reached a particularly elevated state of arousal.
As previously mentioned, the most common means of bringing a female to climax is via clitoral stimulation.
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